Logo

How can couples reverse the buildup of resentment once they notice it?

11.06.2025 06:34

How can couples reverse the buildup of resentment once they notice it?

By deciding to stop with the criticism and the nagging and instead say thank you for everything you do for me. Thank you for loving me.

By keeping in mind it’s OK to have different opinions and different experiences, and they both matter in equal measure.

By learning to validate what the other is feeling. “I can absolutely see why you feel this way.”

Jordan Ott hiring strengthens questions on Suns’ decision-making tree - Arizona Sports

By giving up the notion that someone has to “win” or that anyone loses by saying “you are right”, “I am sorry”, or “I can do better.”

By internalizing that responding with kindness is strength, not weakness.

By wanting to truly understand each other, despite feeling unheard.

AI could solve puzzles posed by twin stars in 'mere minutes or seconds on a single laptop' - Space

By taking turns talking.

By resolving to listen with curiosity rather than defensiveness.